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Celebrating Yourself: 3 Empowering Life Lessons in Perspective, Guilt, & Boundaries

When was the last time you were taking the time celebrating yourself? This weekend I had a very worthwhile reason that I needed to take the time celebrating me. I celebrated another trip around the sun for me. I’ve reached 42 years of life officially. Most days I love spending my time behind the boudoir […]

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Banish Body Guilt & Curate a Positive Self Image Through Boudoir

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The world is inundated with ways the improve your positive self image and banish body guilt. The standard of beauty is fluid, constantly changing between cultures and decades. It’s no wonder so many people feel guilt and shame around their bodies and struggle to maintain a positive self image. Should you workout your glutes or […]

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A Quality Boudoir Photographer is Worth the Investment

In boudoir, I have always believed that you truly pay for quality. It’s a experience on top of artfully beautiful photography. Today I felt called to share a story about why I will always preach that investing in quality professional photography. I was attending a wedding recently and all of my table mates were discussing […]


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3 Ways to Challenge the Narrative of What is Sexy

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I want to put you into the hypothetical drivers seat today by challenging the narrative of what is sexy to you. Let’s say today is the day you get to meet your favorite actor. Maybe you have harbored a secret crush on him for years, have every picture of him tucked away under your pillow, […]

Our Past Boudoir Clients Speak – Why They Chose The GFE

Welcome to my world where radical self-confidence meets allure and is then immortalized through the lens of boudoir! It’s amazing to think that I have been running the Girlfriend Experience for over a decade now! I have been a part of so many boudoir journeys for countless people over the years. One of the key […]


Embracing Your Main Character in Boudoir – Be Whoever You Want to Be

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You are watching a movie, and brilliant things are happening. The main character’s energy is thrilling, and you are on the edge of your seat to see how they pull through. Maybe she gets the guy. Maybe she learns she is a badass exactly how she is, but either way, you wish for even a […]

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The Art of Sensuality: Unleashing the Power of the French Women

French women are the epitome of sensuality, allure, and grace. Throughout history, French women have been envied and emulated for their innate ability to intertwine sensuality with everyday life. From their effortless style to their captivating confidence, French women are undeniably magnetic. But what sets French women apart from the rest of us? The deeper […]

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Making Boudoir Part of Your Self-Healing Journey

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When it comes to your boudoir journey mental health matters.  We are in a different society in the 2020s. One that focuses more on the effects of mental health and prioritizing self-care. But as the world moves on at a rapid pace, many of us continue to be stuck with old ideologies that hold us […]

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The Importance of Pro Boudoir Hair and Makeup for Your Photoshoot

Boudoir Photography at The Girlfriend Experience is all about luxury. We want you to walk in as you are so we can pamper you for the entirety of your session. That means we don’t just recommend professional hair and makeup, we provide it. We’re ready for you to sit back, relax, and let us do […]

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