Some of us “girl” pretty damn hard on a day to day basis. Others, not so much. If even the idea of what you need to do to prepare for you boudoir shoot with The GFE Boudoir is a little overwhelming, let me help! That is what I am here for. Keep reading for some tips to help make you feel confident and prepared before you walk into the studio for your boudoir shoot.
Over the course of the year I correspond with many significant others who really really want their partners to have a boudoir photoshoot. Many men explain how lovely and remarkable their wives are but that their wives simply think their husbands are saying what they want to hear. Others want to inspire confidence. Some think this is the most unique gift they can give.
There is power in sexuality and sexual exploration. There power in being overt? Absolutely! Is there power in being demure? Absolutely. Is there power in the display of sexuality? Absolutely! Is there power in being chaste? Absolutely. What you want has power, what you are motivated by has power and all I do as a boudoir photographer is to give you PERMISSION to take back your power.
I want to give you the same level of work that you see here and on our social media platforms. I can pose your baby toe and show you how to literally move one tit to get you into the all sorts of extra position to flatter all of those bodacious curves and direct you through your facial emotions like we are making a run for an academy award; but if you want to talk about it feeling silly or dumb or how you hate your face, just know that your body isn’t my first and it might not even be my first of the day. I have photographed over 200 women just this year.
No woman is immune from insecurities. Fears come in all shapes and sizes. From feeling like your body isn’t worthy to feeling like you haven’t brought anything nice enough to wear. I said it in one of the videos, every woman is afraid she is going to be the one that this doesn’t work for. That she will be the woman who will be unphotographable (that isn’t a word so it isn’t a thing that can happen), the woman who just wasn’t good enough, the woman who should have stayed home.
Images have been removed at request of client. Sometimes we change out minds and that is OK! We totally respect your wishes. Your trust in us is paramount!! What was your motivation to seek out a boudoir photography experience? I was trying to come up with the best gift for my fiancé on our wedding day. […]
Couples boudoir. Yes, it is a thing. No, you aren’t weird for being curious. Bonus info, I happen to specialize in couples boudoir. In fact, half of our shoots are of couples. Because intimacy, sensuality, sexuality are all completely normal aspects of healthy relationship this isn’t weird at all! As a divorced woman, I […]
My sole motivation for the boudoir experience was to give it as a gift to my husband for our 25th wedding anniversary. See, no matter what age or what life experience I was going through, he always thought I was beautiful. Pregnant, really pregnant, right after delivery, as I age, when I cry, when […]
